If I am I because you are you, then I am not I and you are not you. But if I am I because I am I,
and you are you because you are you, then I am I and you are you.
-- Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk
Suzanne Holmes, Ed.D., is a Licensed Professional Counselor in... read more

I approach couples counseling with two concepts in mind:
I will help the two of you safely share your private and guarded thoughts and feelings. I will help you learn how to transform conflict and differences into opportunities for intimacy. I’ll serve as mediator, coach, or referee – whatever your particular relationship requires for change and growth.

Depending on your needs, we will work to:
Some couples seek counseling because they simply want to strengthen a happy and well-functioning relationship. They wish to become more conscious of their interactions and mutual participation. Should this be your mission, I will help you reinforce your authentic connection.